Use exceptions for S3 error messages

Summary:
Right now, the "SimpleEmailService" class uses trigger_error() to communicate
error messages. This means they get lost in the error logs and aren't visible in
the MetaMTA interface.

Provide a flag to strengthen them into exceptions, instead.

(I've attempted to emulate the prevailing style so I can offer this upstream.)

Test Plan: Faked an error condition and got a detailed stack trace in MetaMTA
instead of an empty "Message" field.
Reviewed By: jungejason
Reviewers: hunterbridges, codeblock, jungejason, tuomaspelkonen, aran
CC: aran, jungejason
Differential Revision: 783

src/applications/metamta/adapter/amazonses/PhabricatorMailImplementationAmazonSESAdapter.php

@@ -42,6 +42,7 @@ class PhabricatorMailImplementationAmazonSESAdapter
     require_once $root.'/externals/amazon-ses/ses.php';
 
     $service = newv('SimpleEmailService', array($key, $secret));
+    $service->enableUseExceptions(true);
     return $service->sendRawEmail($body);
   }