* name bmesh operator func's BMO_slot_buffer_* rather then BMO_slot_* since it wasnt obvious some only dealt with buffer, some both.
* more typechecks and asserts of BMO_ functions (I lost some time calling a map with a buffer function that failed silently).
* small speedup for extrude check - test if the edge is wire _before_ doign a hash lookup.
* added BM_elem_flag_set, BMO_elem_flag_set. to avoid 'if(...) enable(); else disable();' all over the place.
* added bmesh_operator_api_inline.c, the header file was getting messy.
