The main goal of this refactor is to not store Object/Collection
pointers for every individual instance. Instead instances now
store a handle for the referenced data. The actual Object/Collection
pointers are stored in a new `InstanceReference` class.
This refactor also allows for some better optimizations further down
the line, because one does not have to search through all instances
anymore to find what data is instanced.
Furthermore, this refactor makes it easier to support instancing
`GeometrySet` or any other data that has to be owned by the
`InstancesComponent`.
Differential Revision: https://developer.blender.org/D11125
Generally, it would be good to not allow this from happening in the
first place but that is quite tricky because an object does not know
which other object instances it. Similar checks might be necessary
in other places, but this fixes the bug already.
Differential Revision: https://developer.blender.org/D11086